I have to admit that I am often the one that people think about first. I think it is because of my personality, my demeanor, and the way I carry myself that I am often lumped in with the rest of the pack. I have decided that I am going to change it. I will no longer take other people’s opinions of me for granted. I will no longer assume that others are out to get me.
The more I think about the fact that other people are in the same boat as I am, the more I think that we should change the rules to fit it. If I was a stranger, I would probably be more paranoid than the rest of the group, probably more paranoid than someone who is a member of the group. People don’t want to be lumped in with a group like that.
One of the most important qualities of being a member of a group is being able to think outside the group. That is why I am not in the group with the big, loud, annoying woman. She brings out the worst in people. I don’t want to be like her. I want to be more of me, not a group of people that I can’t stand.
I agree. I would think the big, loud, annoying woman is a bit of a freak, but I could be wrong. The woman in the group is the biggest jerk around and has a huge chip on her shoulder. I think people should be less judgmental toward people who dont fit in, and more accepting of people who do.
I would imagine that in a group, the rules (i.e. not being judgmental) are more accepted, so I don’t think people are really judging people. I think if a person accepts the group rules, then it’s okay to be judgmental. So I think what I’m saying is I don’t think being in a group with the loud, judgmental woman is a good thing. I think it makes it harder to be yourself.
I think there is a difference between judging how other people should be in a group and judging how you should be in a group. In a group, i am the majority, I am dominant, and I need to accept that. In a group, I am not the majority, I am not dominant, and I need to accept that. In a group, I am acceptable, and if anyone wants to challenge me, they can.
Again, the woman is the loud, judgmental, annoying bitch who just doesn’t get it. She’s not a nice person. She’s not nice to me. She’s a bitch. She just sees me as a person who is annoying to her, and she’s not getting it.
This last comment is very much in line with the other. If people think I am annoying, then I am not a nice person. If people think I am a bitch, then I am not acceptable. If people think I am just a person who likes to just sit and twiddle her thumbs, then I am a bitch. If I am just a person who likes to sit and twiddle my thumbs, then thats just me.
This is why I call myself a bitch. This is why I like to take up space and sit and twiddle my thumbs. I do not like to be bothered. I like to do things. I like to be bothered. I like to sit and twiddle my thumbs. I do not like to be bothered. I like to do things. I like to be bothered.
This is why I like to take up space. This is why I like sit and twiddle my thumbs. This is why I like to be bothered. This is why I like to be bothered. This is why I like to do things. This is why I like to be bothered. This is why I like to sit and twiddle my thumbs. This is why I like to be bothered. This is why I like to be bothered. This is why I like to do things.
