Now, to be fair, I’m not saying I don’t think you should have your shit together. I’m saying that when you’re driving and think about whether or not you’re doing the right thing, it’s like you’re at a traffic accident. You know that the other parties involved are going to die. The police have already been called, and your life is in danger.
We don’t think we should have it together. Because it’s not always like this. Youve got a lot of choices about what to do, youve got a lot of emotions, what to say, etc. But we’re just going to take care of it together. It’s just a matter of how we handle it.